Power of an Apology

Have you ever been in a situation where someone quickly placed blame on you, only to later realize they were wrong? It’s a humbling experience—sometimes frustrating, sometimes funny, but always a moment to learn from.

I recently had a small but telling experience while helping someone set up their new computer. You know how it is—new device, old passwords, and that one question that can send things left real quick: "Do you know your password?"

They responded, "I had a notebook with all my passwords… but when you came down here moving things around, I haven't been able to find it."

Now, let’s pause. That’s not just a statement—that’s an accusation. Have you ever been blamed for something before all the facts were in? Instead of arguing, I simply said, "I didn’t touch or throw away any notebooks."

And guess what? Not even two seconds later—they found it.

I smiled and said, "Oh, so you need to apologize to me then."

And with full confidence, they said, "No, I don’t."

I said, "No, really, you should say sorry."

Again, they responded, "No, I don’t. You’re not that sensitive. Whatever, let’s move forward."

At that moment, I had to laugh, but it also made me think about how often we brush past moments that require humility. How many times do we dismiss someone's feelings simply because we don’t see the need to acknowledge them?

But let’s flip it. How often do we do that to others? How often do we refuse to apologize because it seems small or insignificant?

The Bible reminds us in Colossians 3:12-13 (NIV): "Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you."

See, humility isn’t just for the big mistakes—it’s for the small ones too. A simple "my bad" can go a long way in strengthening relationships. It’s not about being right or wrong; it’s about respect and acknowledging someone’s experience, even when it feels minor.

So, here’s my challenge to you: When you know you should apologize—just do it. Even if it feels minor. Even if it wasn’t intentional. Just say, "Hey, my bad," and keep it moving. It builds trust in ways "whatever, let’s move forward" never will.

Let’s be people who walk in humility, grace, and a heart ready to make things right.